Erotic massage is the use of (touch) massage techniques by one person on another person’s erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure. The process may achieve or enhance the recipient’s sexual excitation or arousal and sometimes achieve orgasm. The person providing the massage is called a masseuse (female) or masseur (male).
What other types of massage are out there?
For the longest time, massages have been used for medical purposes, but not many know their use for erotic purposes also has a long history. In the case of women, the two focal areas are breasts and pubis, while in case of men, the focal area is the male genital region.In modern intimacy or service provision, erotic massage Sydney is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex – foreplay or the sex act – even part of sex therapy. There is also a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries, which call their businesses saunas, spas, or massage parlours.
How do I know I’m getting a good massage?
If you’ll pardon the pun, it’s all about the service. How easy was it to book an adult massage appointment? How helpful were the employees? A professional therapist will always ask for medical information, including any injuries. The best therapists will ask about physical and mental health, family history and how (if at all) this relates to health or session goals.
A truly good erotic massage will work out your knots and may potentially feel like a workout. The therapist will check in with you throughout the session to make sure the pressure is within your pain threshold or if it needs to be adjusted. With any of these experiences, there is always an element of magic with any of these interactions. There is an intangible instinct that only very experienced therapists develop over many years of practice – the instinctive ability to foretell the right amount of pressure at exactly the right time in the very precise point of the body that requires it the most. With palpation, the accurate scanning of the body using light friction, the therapist can read a client’s muscles like a book with their fingertips and can adapt the massage technique accordingly. A skilled therapist can also detect physical bodily changes in the client’s muscles and, in the case of abdominal massage, immediately notice dietary change (e.g. bloating can be a signal of a minor food intolerance or the presence of too much sugar). In experienced massage visitors should beware of the so-called “massage by numbers” where the identical massage sequence is used for all clients regardless of their conditions or preferences. The sign of a good massage is that it zones in onto areas you have highlighted as priorities for the massage therapist to focus on.
What if I want more than just a massage?
Some services may offer you what is commonly known as a ‘happy ending’. For a woman, that means massaging of the pubis area and for men that means masturbation, in both cases until ejaculation is achieved. The recipient is then left alone for a few moments to clean themselves up and get dressed before the therapist comes in to clean the room and prepare for the next customers.